I have in no way been doing any "feminist bashing". I specifically said that you are entitled to your preferences. So don't even give me that baloney. FWIW - I believe that both partners need to try to be attractive to the other. There is nothing wrong with wanting that - a little makeup, a cute outfit - partners are definately entitled to that.
I don't assume that you and Mrs. C share a "great love" that must be rekindled. However, I am responding to the basics of sharing a loving relationship. If you can't do that, you can't create this intimacy you speak of wanting. So, why bother? Stay with Mrs. C and the kids and get a big breasted nympho on the side and be happy.
As I said before, I am done with the topic of why your comment was hurtful to the relationship and ill timed. However, I will note that I have at no time issued any steryotypical insults your way.
