The boob comment was not taken as you intended it to be taken and is something I would never do or say. I think you should not give her suggestions or tell her what you would rather have.
Some things are too personal and can be talked about it the individual with the condition, equipment brings it up.
BB has one and a half breasts due to breast cancer. No comments from me other than I still tell her caressing either one turns me on. Then I show her my erection, and say "the penis doesn't lie."
BB is over weight but she does things to try to lose weight. No comments from me about her weight. I mostly say what I still see that I like and she is 65.
Additional comment to Karen1, What you have is what you have. I think it is good with many guys . Just encouraging you to drop what your X said about bigger breasts, if I read one of your posts correctly. Some guys don't know when they have it good. They are clueless.
Opinions based on faulty information is worthless. Garbage in, garbage out, IFYKWIM.
and say "the penis doesn't lie."
