I wrote a post to you which I lost. I have had the "boob job" convo with my ex - more than once. It became a mantra in my head when we had sex. It is still in the back of my head even in a new R - not all the time but sometimes. I will tell you that any time you comment negatively on a physical feature of someone who you purport to love you minimize your credibility as someone who "loves" them. We're not talking about encouraging someone to lose 10 pounds here - that is something that can be changed under someone's own power. We are talking about a defining personal feature. What if she had cancer and had to get a double mastectomy? Reconstruction is possible but they sure don't look the same.
I know you disagree but I think you owe her an apology for that comment, I think you should be taking off her blouse and kissing those too small breasts and the tummy made slack from having YOUR kids and celebrating the woman that she IS. OTOH - if SHE wants plastic surgery then by all means - support it.
Hairdog - sorry for the hijack. Couldn't let it go as I have had personal experience with it.
