Cobra- I just had a post to you that I deleted. I just wrote and posted and after re-reading it, I decided it sounded harsher than I even intended.
Basically, what I want to say to you is that I see you as a bulldozer who will keep pushing until you get what you want. If you don't get a negative reaction from your W, you take that as an affirmation that you're doing the right thing, and so you keep pushing. If you do get a negative reaction from your W, then it's her FOO getting in the way, and still you keep pushing. It doesn't surprise me one bit that your W has walls. When you think about the kind of person you want to be, don't kind, compassionate, caring make the list? Try a little tenderness Cobra, even if doesn't get you what you want. Maybe you shoudn't be willing to pay such a high price to get your way.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
