Quote: She hid behind the feminist defense of women respect needing respect from men, when I wonder if she was really upset that you were GAL without her? Possibly she was feeling left out and hurt because you were making friends and she had a feeling of losing you.
I think there is some truth to this. Somewhat similar is the way she kind of gets loving and touchy/feely when I basically show no interest in her. Kind of like someone's description recently of how to get a cat to come and play with you. Try to pet it, and it will run away. Ignore it, (GAL) and it starts purring and doing figure eights around your feet. And, start playing with another cat, and it just might scratch and hiss.
And no, I haven't followed up on the "better wife" comment. Seriously, I predict she will minimize it as the ravings of a lunatic, and attack me for trying to hold her to it. Oh sure, it might come out, but thinking I could discuss this with her in a calm manner is fantasy.
