You know Cobra, if my H said that to me, that he thought I needed a boob job, I would feel attacked, not because of being hypersensitive, but because it is an attacking comment. You seem to do the very thing to her that you say she does to you. And it may come from FOO reasons ( having anger towards your mother). Just pointing out to you that when you see a behavior in your wife, it may help to ask yourself in what way am I doing the same thing.
