Interesting that she wrote a book about the proper care and feeding of marriage. She has been asked many times to write a book called the "Proper Care and Feeding of women". She has not and she is straight to the point on this, it would not work. Effectively, if the women works on the marriage, she has the tools to save it. If the husband and the wife work on it, they have the tools to save it. If ONLY the husband works on it, he does NOT have the tools to save it.