Oh, Lil, do I have to ride in your private jet? I'd prefer my gold-plated flying car, if you don't mind. Or my personal jetpack.
And cac, I can understand your difficulty reconciling DrL with UU philosophy. The book is peppered with those familiar references to the bible (son shall leave his father, flesh shall be as one, etc) that she uses to punctuate her general theme: "Ladies, wake up! He's going to leave you if you don't start treating him right! And who would blame him?"
She apparently has a new book out called "The Care and Feeding Of Marriage". Maybe it contains that balance you're looking for. I didn't see it at B&N.
