Quote: It might help my wife to rethink some of her justifications and see some of the cracks in her armor.
I used to think this way, Cobra. I would spend a lot of time looking for such statements. They do exist. I just know that my W would not be swayed by them. Instead, she would question woman's motivations, or, worse yet, doubt that such statements were even written by a woman at all.
And, of course, her pat answer to hearing about women who enjoy sex A LOT, or who enjoy any sex that is slightly over the edge (including, btw, oral sex), is that the women were probably abused. Or that the women are "unenlightened."
I know, how did I end up here?
Maybe it's because of reading Dr.Laura, but I'm going to have to agree with my ol' pal CeMar and say that "bait and switch" has at least something to do with it.