HD,

I think you should have bought that book, plus Dieda’s book, and left them both on the coffee table for your wife to read. IMO, they both say the same thing, but from male and female perspectives. Both inform on how to please the male/female and both explain what each sex wants.

My wife did not like looking Schlessinger, thinking she knew it all and that it was just a disguised way of subjugating women. But I read some of Dieda out loud to her a while ago. She seemed to like what she heard from that book (or at least was open to hearing it) because it put the focus on the man’s responsibility, instead of on hers. With that as a backdrop, she seems to be a LITTLE more open to hearing what Schlesinger has to say.


Cobra