Hairdog, ol' boy!! I had a feeling this ("just are") state was where you were, but I was wondering.
If it makes you feel any better (I'm sure it doesn't), I am still in the exact same place myself. 2006 was completely sexless, and it's something like two years now since we've ML, and only about 3x in the last five years. Doesn't seem to bother the wife one iota, and I'm no longer that attracted to her anyway, and we get along fine otherwise.
She did just complete her Certified Personal Trainer certification, and get a job as a PT at our local gym, which is going to expose her to all kinds of advances, I'm sure. She also had a full tummy-tuck this past year, and looks fantastic. I know I should care, but I honestly don't. Half of me wishes it would happen, as at least it would prove that she HAS a sexual side, and she's not COMPLETELY frigid.
