Quoting LonelyAtNight:
She said she doesn’t care about intimacy any more and doesn’t want it and there is no problem whatsoever to live without it. She said if I don’t like it; feel free to leave and find someone else to have sex with.


Hi LAN--long time no post.

I'm sorry to hear of your situation, LAN. Sadly, it seems to be one that quite a few DBers run into even if they do manage to "bust" the divorce.

I guess at some point the question becomes "is there anything more I can possibly do to draw her 'back?' and, if not, am I willing to settle for what I've got?"

She may never come "back." Or possibly she will. Which do you think you can live with more--the possiblity of divorce or that of a loveless marriage?

A tough question, LAN. But one that, by your very endurance, you've earned the right to answer for yourself.

SI