Well H filed a response we have a temp hearing and he putin the response that cs should be based on his income and other dependent minors that he has to support, temp hearing is Feb 12, either OW will still be preg, already have baby or will go to labor while he is gone thats if he even shows. and he has no attorney and my attorney said for visitation that we will put down that comes where im at and that OW can not be around my kids or me so pretty much he can leave her in OR where she belongs, thats gonna cause a fight between them and H got mad when i asked was he coming to court he said t hat he didnt know there was a tem-p hearing when my atty mailed the papers out jan 9th and court already ordered mediation for sometime after hearing. i figured that if he wanted it done an dover with he wouldnt have filed a response i take that as a blessing, i really thought he was gonna getit over with so he can marry OW before there baby is born now he wants to drag it out