I'm sure any one of us here would agree that sex every seven days is quite reasonable and hardly burning up the sheets.
Quote: I know that something different is possible. He had a video once that we watch together that advocated for more mutual, gentle sex. After the video, we had wonderful sex. I was so moved that I wept but he retained none of it. It you ask him today, he will tell you that I didn't like it and wouldn't do it again.
This is sweet... it almost makes me cry to read it...
Was that the only time he was more gentle?
Why do you suppose he is so aggressive?
I don't want to sound like a broken record, but he sounds very angry. Is he angry at things in general?
It's certainly very broad-minded of you to take him back after encounters with prostitutes and everything...
I'm hoping others will join this discussion. Your sitch has me stumped.