Be careful. Smile when you see him and do not tell him what you know or suspect.
As for the fireworks, apparently your xh isn't happy w/his new sandbox and playmate. If you don't want him over at your place, don't invite him. Discuss it w/your children and see what they want to do. I suspect that they don't him over either.
Enjoy the fireworks and ring that damn bell loud and clear to welcome in the new year.
P.S. Can you remove my name from the title of your thread? It's not fair to other posters to have me singled out to respond to others. Everyone gives such excellent advice here and it's better to not have my name appear in the titles. Many thanks and Happy New Year to you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
