Laughing, Your xh is very blatant in what he's doing and I don't like the way he's trying to "buy and/or bribe" the kids. He really doesn't have a clue as to how to communicate w/them because he's been out of their day-to-day lives for a very long time. Very sad.
Now, I understand your concern about the situation, but there's nothing you can do about it. Your children are the ones that can and will control this situation w/their father and from the looks of it, they are very much on to him and his ways. If I were you, I'd step back, let the dust settle and enjoy the rest of the holiday w/the kids.
Leave your xh w/his new honey pot and allow them to stew in the pot for a very long time. His loss is your gain.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
