Holiday wishes for a wonderful new year to all of you amazing vets on this thread. You don't know all of us. We all know you. We have lurked and learned as you journaled your life. Many of us have been not too far behind in our own journey, and perhaps our own D.
I understand not speaking to the alien post D. Maybe one day. But why? What is there to say ... too bad for you?!!! No need. We all know the score. Now for that hard part. Moving on with a real life. One that includes quality time with someone that understands what we have been through, if not why.
The journals of the wise ones say that on the other end of mlc we find true unconditional love. I am ready for that. Yes, I had it, although it did include very fine print covering the MLClause; or the escape clause. Now to find that person who not only knows they are ok, and not destroyed by a spouses mlc, but also that they are ok and not going to have their own struggle with their own life stage transition.
I hope you all find your destiny in life and all the love it brings.
