You are absolutely right. He had two German Shepards at his house when we dated...he fed them, but never spent any quality time with them...he just doesn't like cats. I told him, I prefer cats b/c they are like me - independent and have lots of love, but if you ignore them, they will find someone else to love...that went over big...like, in a big hesitation...
So, yes, it's my ball game, I have my life and am quite content, so, if he feels that he won't meet me halfway - well, there's the door, don't let it hit your a** on the way out...
The little woman knows too much now...before, she didn't know enough...I could write a book...yes, I'm in control...