1210, it's good to love yourself and to be able to put yourself first, when you choose to. The trouble with people like your XH (and probably my W) is that they don't make the choice. They are on auto-pilot, it's ME, ME, ME, it's kind of like breathing for them so they don't CHOOSE! Then they can't figure out why others don't want to play with them anymore. Go figure. BTW froggie has made his dresser debut, he looks outstanding! How's the Chia pet doing?
