I see what you're saying Tom, but my XH does not think that my cat is on the same level as a human...even though, I do. He's really being completely irrational...but, he came to me and he can also walk away again if he wants to.
I went out with one of my friends tonight to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner and had a really good time. I am really stuffed, by eating a pizza appetizer...whoa, it'll be hard to sleep tonight. Friends stick by you and Annie is all for me taking my time...whatever I decide to do about my XH she will back me up...although, she wasn't happy about his attitude over Cheddie. She knows him and thinks that he is a little over himself...which he is, but he's always been that way...the guy with a cool car, great clothes, and good looks - but, that isn't what sets the world on fire. It's compassion, caring, good manners, respect for all people, loving life to its' fullest.
