I've been thinking of that all day today...do I really want to go back to something that toxic. Thinking back, I just knew, it seemed too easy to let go...I did a lot of things that I probably would have never done being M. Maybe, just maybe, someone is telling me or showing me, that it's time to set forth w/o the X...to move on and not look back.
Although, my M wasn't considered bad or unhappy - I did feel that it was something surreal...a bond for purposes of bonding...that's probably why, I prevented myself from getting pregnant. Somehow, it was not for a long term distance...so, does that make me wrong, bad, masochistic, to question now, do I want this? Did it take losing my little orange boy, to realize that, my XH has no respect for my feelings, even now?
Pondering these questions are now in the brain, regurgi- tating over and over...