I'm so sorry about Cheddie. My parents' ginger cat had to be put to sleep yesterday. Turned out he had agressive cancer. While my H did sound sympathetic when I told him on IM earlier this evening, Barney's death just reinforces to me that we must strive to make the very best out of each day and that some things (increasingly my H!) just aren't worth worrying about.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
