Yes...Cheddie will have fun in Heaven, running around, and looking at everything...
My XH was really a piece of work...no empathy, sympathy, or any thoughts to how I feel. He said he would buy me a new orange cat...like that would really make me feel better. I'm not liking what I see with him...he seems the same and more shallow than before.
I'm used to being by myself...controlling me and my pets. He seems like an intrusion now - someone, with whom, I have out grown. Yes, he's handsome, makes money and I do love him...but, that's not enough...his lack of compassion, in regards to Cheddie - tells me, we aren't on the same page.
