I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I've lost 2 cats to cancer over the years and tonight my parents' beautiful ginger tabby, Barney, is at the vets and we've been told it's touch and go whether he'll make it through the night. He went down with a mystery illness last night and they still haven't been able to work out what's wrong with him.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
