Yes, he can be a pine, or pine cone...he's doing pretty good lately...but we have to get him through the first of the year still...that's going to be a bad day, or night.
Exploratory questions...open ended... that give all kinds of escapes and outs for him. You know the sitch.
Here is a silly example for me (c. 1989).. dated a girl for two years who left me for her boss at a job I secured for her with Hewlitt Packard.. I know ... anyway.. she wanted me back after 18 months..
Q. So.. What have you learned over the last months ?
A. What ?
Q. I just wanted to know about you ? You are ok, right ?
A. Well.. sure I am fine.
Q. With yourself too, right ?
A. Of course I am ! ( )
Q. Oh good !.. Why are you here ?
A. What do you mean Why am I here ?
Q. What happened ? ( the stage is set.. open ended.. honest answer or a bunch of stuff, eh ?)
A. Oh.. I was so wrapped up in my job.. blah blah blah..
I learned alot from that btw.. Come on 1210.. you know this drill.
The answer did not address the problem nor give a real answer. I walked at the end of the evening btw and never looked back.
Beat around the bush.. and let the bush lose its leaves !?
AT is talking to himself...this should be interesting! Glad to have you back.
1210- I'm starting to lose faith in the strong one!!! The strong one is you! You offer such great advice now turn around and read it. Don't fret...Like AT said, just enjoy!!!
Everything will be A-OK! And if it doesn't work for him I'm only 3 hours away!! (Does the time keep getting shorter or will I just be driving faster?)
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
Yes, I know what to do...just not yet. The opportune time must be right. But, it is necessary to discuss the issues. I won't invest 100% into this, until I know that this is legit.
Cheddie is going down...I've cooked him roast beef, sirloin, mashed potatoes with gravy, every kind of food possible...at night, I syringe him with water in the mouth...he eats one bite...I may have to put him to sleep. If I had a choice, I would rather keep my cat, instead of my X. There, I said it...the cat is more important...
Thanks, Tom, this cat is my life...he is so sweet, yet, you know, there's nothing you can do for feline leukemia. He has had it for years, but this spell is pulling him down. His pads are white, his tongue is pale pink...he will try and drink some water, but not enough. Cheddie Cheese is like a son...this will be very hard to put him down. Then, to bury him here at the house...the thought makes me sick to my stomach...goodnight...I have to check on him....
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That is so sad.