A little nervous to post here. A little nervous to put this in print. It's almost like if you say it "out loud" you might jinx it! New Year - new forum. My posts are in the MLC forum. H left June 06, moved in with OW. Nov things started improving between us 100%, and then he finally admitted to OW ( I knew, but he never would admit it). I asked him to move out of OW's place and he did, to a friends vacation place. Said, he had been lonely and they had EA first, never meant to stay so long with her. Well, he slipped once with her again, but swears it was a goodbye - see ya pity thing. hmmm.
Anyway, he has been here ever since for the last 2 weeks. He wants to work on M and is still going to T, which seems to be helping. He admits he is still confused about our R - things had gotten so bad before he left. The lying, finances, arguing about kids, etc. Now we have fixed everything for the most part and we are communicating like never before. All positives. I don't feel like I'm walking on eggshells anymore, if I want to ask him something I do, and then we discuss it. Sadly, it wasn't like that before. I guess I realize that it's all "too new" still and could still go away, but I have so much hope that if we can talk about it, then we can work on it. We are going away for a romantic getaway this week for a couple nights, so here's hoping for more of the same.
Welcome, it's nice to see new faces on this part of the DB forum
Hope you have an awesome trip, and here's a piece of wisdom straight from my H "sometimes we take two steps back for every step forward", piecing is hard work, but so worth it! I highly recommend the book "healing the hurt in your marriage" which deals with conflicts, getting over old hurts and piecing.
Good luck and wish you the best
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
