Quote: It is a place where they can continue their narcisist behavior by posting pics of themselves, comments that revolve around them and a whole biography about them. Why don't they just keep a journal book???? I'll tell you why...because they need the attention. My H never kept a journal before, then all of the sudden MySpace came along and it was cool to write a biograhy about himself, share pics of his band, pics of him as a kid.
Thanks so much for that perspective - I agree! It really is all about that sort of thing. It's interesting b/c I guess that is why it reminds me so much of teenagers, but when you are a teenager, that's normal - when you are 30, it's a big stretch! My H did keep a journal, but I guess this is something that OW (or should I say OG for "other girl! ) does, so why not H as well? It's amazing how they cannot see how they look, especially when this is the sort of thing that he used to make fun of or complain about when some of his friends were going through the same thing as H's sitch.
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I went and looked up my H's myspace page and saw how he was telling 22 yo OW "I love you..." blah...blah...
Your H only does this to get a reaction out of OW. Think about it, would it mean anything to him if he didn't get some kind of attention out of it? Basically, it's not about any love he feels for OW, it's about the attention he gets back...that's it. That's what MySpace is all about.
Yes, I see that now too. I think it's back to the whole teenager thing where you have to put that sort of thing out there for others to see to make some sort of statement about yourself - not sure if that makes sense, b/c I can barely make sense of it either. Ugh!
I am so much better today and I appreciate that you asked me about that! I've had enough of that dang MySpace crap and will not go there again! Twice was two times, too many! My feelings last night are a perfect example of how we often need time away from a really upsetting situation to give us more perspective. I think I was just so upset b/c it seems like he is such a stranger to me now, but I have to tell myself that I can't focus on that. I can only focus on myself and allow God to help my H w/ his own baggage. If we are supposed to be together, our past will speak for itself when OG shows her own true, immature colors. But my H, has to see that w/o any help from me.
I hope you are doing well? I'll have to visit your thread. Thanks again Unbroken for the insight!
My H did keep a journal, but I guess this is something that OW (or should I say OG for "other girl! 
) does, so why not H as well? It's amazing how they cannot see how they look, especially when this is the sort of thing that he used to make fun of or complain about when some of his friends were going through the same thing as H's sitch.
Ugh!
