Oh no, not MySpace...it's evil. My C gave me the best advice about it. It is a place where they can continue their narcisist behavior by posting pics of themselves, comments that revolve around them and a whole biography about them. Why don't they just keep a journal book???? I'll tell you why...because they need the attention. My H never kept a journal before, then all of the sudden MySpace came along and it was cool to write a biograhy about himself, share pics of his band, pics of him as a kid. The most hilarious part was that even the comments he made to OW on her page were still revolved around him.
Quote: I went and looked up my H's myspace page and saw how he was telling 22 yo OW "I love you..." blah...blah...
Your H only does this to get a reaction out of OW. Think about it, would it mean anything to him if he didn't get some kind of attention out of it? Basically, it's not about any love he feels for OW, it's about the attention he gets back...that's it. That's what MySpace is all about.
So, the next time you have the urge to look, don't do it! It's just a place where they can feed their narcissistic cravings. You're not seeing a real person on MySpace, it's superficial. And while they may be feeling one way for that moment in time that they decide to make a comment or post a pic or change their profile, etc...it doesn't mean that is the way they are always feeling.
