Hi Laura,
Sounds like you are doing better after talking to DB coach.
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My hope is that my H will miss that I did not contact him on his birthday (2/6), which essentially will show him that I did listen to his wishes and not contact him anymore. Also, he will have plenty of time w/ OW and can't blame me for his confusion if it is just the two of them.




This so great! In a time when we question every move we make and every word we speak to them, you can be sure that you just did what was requested of you by your H. He sure can't argue with that!!!

Hope you are having a good day today. Let me know how you're doing.