Quote: you start questioning everything that you ever were to each other and start thinking that maybe this really is his true heart
His true heart? He doesn't even know what a true heart is right now. "True" hearts, life and love are about making choices. "True" hearts are about being true to yourself AND your loved ones. My H has said for once in his life he was going to take care of himself and do what he wanted in life no matter what anyone else thought. I don't know if you have heard this from your H, but he does seem to be exemplifying some selfish behaviors. His "true" feelings are selfish feelings...nothing more, nothing less. If you believe in MLC, then you also believe your H was not a selfish person up to this point and will not be a selfish person when he comes out of this. Hold on tight...you are going to see selfish behaviors and you will get a glimpse of unselfish acts from time to time. Take them all for what they are as they come. Appreciate the good times and let the bad times roll...and keep coming here when you have the bad times. We're hear to listen when your H isn't
