It, This "self-imposed" boundary seems to be a burden that you feel like you're carrying around, and that seems to me to defeat the whole purpose of boundaries. They are supposed to make it easier for us to know what to do, not harder. Maybe it's time to re-visit this particular boundary and define it a little better.
As for the car insurance, is this information that you cannot just go ahead and provide to them without your husband? I'm assuming that this additional charge will be something YOU will have to pay, and if so, I'm doing whatever I can to make sure I don't have to pay it. Now if it's his problem, I'd maybe send one more message then FORGET ABOUT IT.
That's my 2 cents worth.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
