I received a very important letter from the car loan company requesting some info from him on his insurance. I know that he has it, but they are needing an update and w/o it they will charge a hefty charge of some sort. I sent him a message only saying that I had this letter from them and wanted to know what to do w/ it and whatever was easiest/less stressful for him.
That's all I said and I haven't heard from him. So what do I do here? I think that if someone else told me this, I would suggest that they should not contact more and he should suffer the consequence. All the while, I'm thinking that maybe he didn't get my message (a friend of mine told me she had not received any of the messages I sent her over the weekend.). What do people do when they have the imposed boundary that we would not contact one another? Ugh!
I agree w/ you on the "expectations" part b/c that has been something that has got me into trouble b/c I start thinking about what I expect from a specific situation and if it doesn't happen that way I worry, etc. This is an example of me taking ownership of his response.
