Quote: Repeat to self: I am not the problem...I am not the problem...I am not the problem...
I agree with Bworl completely!! Also, the hardest thing is that we are on their timeline now. He knows you love him and want to be with him, when/if he is ready, he will tell you. The best advice I ever received on these boards was...No Expectations! We all know they are not acting like themselves so how can we possibly know how they will react to certain things?!?! I don't see anything wrong with trying to test the waters a little as long as you don't have any expectations as to how he will react. The truth is you could try the exact same thing one day and he could be sweet as pie, try it again the next day and he might bite your head off.
