Quote: You know you can't help him, Nicola--you've told me this about my own situation. You can choose to keep treating him with love, though, and that in itself will help him.
Yes, that is all I can do; it's hard to stop there, though. He seems pretty happy, actually, which pretty much sucks. But who knows what lies behind the mask.
Quote: I don't think Dyer would say that it matters if you picture yourself with H or alone. What is important is that you focus on being in flow with God/ the universe/ whatever you want to call it. Choose to be happy and happiness will come to you.
Thank you for clarifying this. Dyer does say that it's okay to picture yourself w/ a specific person, but of course, if it's not meant to be, it won't be. I need to find a way of doing what you suggest. I have difficulty getting a concrete picture that way.
Quote: Many times I feel content, but truly happy? Not yet.
As much as I am often envious of your sitch, it can't be easy with all the coming and going, getting a taste of what you want, but never quite enough. It's hard, AMD; be kind to yourself.
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
