YAY I got you over here!! I figured some kind of crude remarks would be required. This is my "base camp," although I try to post less often than I used to. Note "try"; I'm not always successful.
Thank you for your kind post.
Quote: When we discover the real source of our anger, and come to peace with it, we are freed from our anger. The best part is, next time we find ourself getting angry, we more quickly seek the true reason and let it go.
This is very good advice. I think I got through the anger stage a little too quickly, initially. I keep getting back to it, but I get deeper into the reason each time.
Quote: I hope you continue to find your peace. You deserve it. You look happy in the newer pics on thatspace. Yes, hot hot hot!!!
Thanks! You'll notice that my happiness is aided by the glass of wine in my hand!
Quote: Your kids will see your growth, and peace, and want it for themselves. Think how much better prepared you are now to teach them these things. And I do believe one day when your H has begun to find a way to face his demons, he will see how you have grown. He will be amazed, when his eyes are wide open. This does take more time than you sometimes want to wait, but will be worth it ... don't ya think? Guess that is why we walk around chanting ... Patience Patience Patience.
That is my hope--that even if H and I never get back together, I will have provided a good example for my children.
Quote: In the mean time you are welcome to make fun of my ... depth perception all you want.
Wellllll, there would be an easy way to resolve that problem you know, with a ruler...I'll volunteer to measure.
BTW, sorry you had a yucky Christmas. What a shame your boys didn't spend it with you. But you sound better, and I'm glad of that.
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