Hi Nicola, Slow and steady. I think to-date you have done all the work to keep things somewhat smooth for your H to find his way back home. I think this is where you just sit back, watch him find his way back.
I like the positives for sure. They are things he was NOT doing before. Yes, he may be going away for the w/e but that's good. It will give him time to think. Don't be focussing on who he MIGHT be going with.
Yes, he is also doing things you never did together as a couple and perhaps he is realizing that and trying to do it on his own. To impress you? Maybe but also because he realizes what he missed out on.
As long as you continue to be YOU and true to yourself, you can't lose. You want your H to find his way back home on his own without any pressure so let him find his way.
