Nicola- Thanks for posting on my thread a few days back. I was so overwhelmed by everything that I just couldn't focus to post on the boards for a couple days. Now, after I've had a little sleep, I'm seeing things in a new light. Seriously, everything around me feels a little different.
Then, coincidentally I guess, when I get back on the boards I start noticing all these posters with the same attitude that's landed on my head recently. But my thread locked up, so I started a new one on the Thinking of Leaving board. It seemed like the right place to be. I don't really WANT to leave the R, what there is of it, but I'm WILLING to if he can't treat me the way I deserve to be treated. And I'm going to confront our big issues like the SAHM/FT/PT/childcare issue in the best way I know how. I'll do my best not to threaten, but I refuse to the let the fear of losing him rule me anymore. If he goes, he goes. His choice. I have one to make too.
