Rigley - you can give her my email addy if you want. I'm the expert on a LD husband - got 18 years experience with it.

That's a kind offer, Heywyre. If it seems like the right time I will.

And I'm really sorry for your sitch. I hope that you're finding the support and answers you need here. You'd better not give me your husband's email address though, because I'm likely to go off on him. I'd give anything for my wife to want to work on our relationship right now. Then again, I understand what it's like to be an LD man. Without the right information and support, it's extremely difficult to come to grips with. Every TV show, movie, and ad tells you you're a loser.

Rigley