Unfortunately, at the moment your W is looking for Evil Kneivel type sex and is unlikely to be enthusiastic about suggestions that are the equivalant of being pushed on a bike across the grass while wearing a padded helmet even though it might be to her benefit also since she's such a crybaby.
This is a great analogy. Fun. MJ, the twist in all this is that I now feel like the HD partner. I want her all the time. I dream about her. I fantasize like I've never fantasized before
In all this "finding myself" I'm finding a pretty sexaully repressed person who wants out. I still worry about ED episodes, but not as much since I'm confident drugs can get me through until I can conquer the performance anxiety and relationship stress demons.
