Before you show your W anything, post it here so some of the better writers can scan it for misinterperted meanings. You know, like my first message might have given you the wrong idea from what I thought I was saying.
Honeypot's recent post on this thread #1320228 is an example of what I would put in something I would show your W. Edit to remove your name, so your W doesn't think you are going behind her back or looking to hook up with someone on the internet.
Put in a little about how other women feel. A little about how other men are getting to understand the bigger picture. A little about women where the H changed to suit her some. A little about what some H posted to show he got the message his W was sending and what he did about the situation, and the results.
I think painting a picture or having a rough idea for a map might cause your W to see there is hope. I think not seeing what the future holds is part of what your W is so angry about. An unsettled future is scarry for most people.
