Why not copy and paste posts you find here to a word processor file and print it out for your W's benefit.

Aren't you worried about your wife tracking down this BB? Mine is not Internet savvy,

Rigley, I wasn't talking about "your posts" I was talking about women that had lower drive husbands and copy some of those posts to w word processor file and print it out for your W while explaining what you learned about the difference in sex drive causes people to feel and experience.

It would be like you saying you are learning a little more about how your W might be feeling. It would be showing her you care and the differences you two are having is not an isolated situation despite all of her female friends saying their husbands are always after them.

I was thinking your W was feeling like your situation was abnormal, which it isn't.


I might be like saying "here hon, here is a lady that is feeling the same way you are and this is what she and her H are doing/not doing about the situation."


No, I don't want you to show your W what you wrote here. That wasn't even close to my intention.

I think you are receiving excellent information here from other people so do what you think is best with my suggestion.

Cobra's advice about it being difficult to change your innerself is true but I see you are making great progress with your posts about how and what you feel and things you actually do.

I was exposed to a mix of strict religious beliefs so sort of see where you are coming from.

Lou