maybe you're just agreeing with everything because that's part of being Mr. Nice Guy
It's not the disagreeing you need to look for from me, it's the lack of disagreement. But as far as whether I'm just telling you guys what you want to hear, not a chance. In fact, it was my telling my wife what I thought she wanted to hear on Christmas that hit me the hardest. I felt like a sell out. I really need to feel self respect right now, whether anyone else respects me.I'm feeling pretty good about all this, though most of it is still something I really want to do, rather than my new way of living.