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You've probably guessed that there's never really been anything aggressive or truly unsafe sexually between us, except maybe emotionally.

Yes, and since there hasn't been I especially wondered about the use of the word unsafe. It's the last word I would have used... wondered why it came to mind for you?

If indeed she is feeling "unsafe" around you, who are you reminding her of? Who has made her feel sexually unsafe in the past, since it wasn't you?



BTW, cobra's comment was very interesting... maybe you're just agreeing with everything because that's part of being Mr. Nice Guy... (not because these are brilliant and perceptive comments that are "intuitively obvious to the most casual observer" ) Thought-provoking insight-- as always-- from cobra.