Why this word [unsafe], Rig? Give me some background on your experience with safe/unsafe in a sexual context.
Lately, she's been very guarded physically around me. Arms folded, no touchy. In those situations I feel like she's worried I'll come after her. It's almost like to her I'm a different person than I used to be.
I think "unsafe" came out of that.
You've probably guessed that there's never really been anything aggressive or truly unsafe sexually between us, except maybe emotionally.
