Mojo, your POV in this sitch is very valuable in, as Rig said, giving a voice to his W. I agree that Rig's W getting in touch with her anger is very important and that it's something that he needs to do, too. But you may have missed that she's angry in general, not just at him. She's angry at the strict religious background, the way they came together, and at things in general. My perception of her is that she's SO angry that it has to be at more than just him and lack of SL.
But I think our exchange is very illuminating. The discussion is more interesting when we diagree.