Hi....I am surviving and seeing the light of my H's MLC...it has been 6 years since it began with the loss of his career job....he left me over 2 years ago and recently returned about 8 months ago...
The pain...it is real to them....but initially what drives them to leave (if not an OW) is that they see us as the cause of the pain....they see us growing older....we become a mirror of their life....and they really believe that if they get away from us....buy new clothes, a new car, new things....then they will be happy and feel young again....that is where the time really comes in....it takes time for them to really realize that these "things" are not going to bring them happiness and that we were not really the cause of their unhappiness....
Hold on....and be patient....that is all you can do....LIN
