Tyler, You are DB with an ambivalent W. She has to still make a decision as to whether or not she wants to pursue a D. Seeking an attorney will help her do that.
My W and I sought an attorney four months into our separation, when it appeared we were heading for D. It wasn't the attorney that influenced the outcome. It was my positive efforts during the separation, and her missing the positives that brought us to reconciliation.
You keep DB. I see her seeking an attorney as getting prepared, in case she decides to pursue D. You keep identifying positives in your situation. Don't let this discourage you from your efforts.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
