Thanks C_L. I do need to make reviewing and tweaking my goals a daily ritual. That would go a long way towards keeping me on track.

There has been progress, I just lose sight of the progress when I encounter her ambivalence.

For instance, tonight she called me at work to let me know she would be going to praise and worship team practice early tonight and as she is driving through the town I work in enroute to practice, would I like to get something to eat.

Of course I said yes and suggested a couple of places that would be easy for her to get to and still make it to practice on time.

Everything went well. Hug and kis goodbye.I just don't know what to make of it all.