C_L,
No real progress yet. Last night and today W became really sick, actually went to the ER last night to get a prescription. So no way to expect progress in this area the last couple of days. Maybe later in the week once she is over this illness?
I posted my goals on the first page of this thread. Short, medium and long term goals.
I answered her with a general financial goal because I could tell she wanted to take it down the R talk road, ie; this is just one more reason we shouldn't try to work this out type thing. I'm trying to stay totally away from any type semblance of R talk at this time, I knew that is where that would go. She will take it there, the last several R type talks have been directed that way by her. The last one she said, why are we even talking about this again? I said, I don't know why YOU are talking about this again, but I have tried to change the subject 3 or 4 times now and you keep coming back to this. How you got here from there is beyond me, I don't need to hear ever again in my life how much someone doesn't want to be with me, and doesn't love me. She didn't know what to say after that and that was the last R type talk.
