Tyler, What happens when you say it? That should determine your strategy at this time. Is she receptive to it? Does she want to hear it from you at this time? Does it promote positives in the conversation?
You will need to accept the reality of your situation at this time. Don't say it to create an illusion that you two are closer than you are. Don't say it to create an illusion of security in your own mind, or as a means of countering your anxiety about the R. Say it because she receives it in a positive manner, and returns it with positive behaviors.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
